Everyone hurts differently. Depending on age and maturity, we find a level of pain in different situations. What is painful to some, may not be painful to others and what bothers me may not bother you. Some feelings linger more than others and sometimes the scars left behind are so deep that they cannot be erased or covered up.
Some people find peace when talking about their struggles and some people prefer to keep quiet. I'm one of those people that prefers to talk about any situation because I find that the more I talk about them, the easier it is to accept or move on. Sometimes it isn't easy to talk about my personal life but I find the courage to do so and I always feel better after.
I promise to always be transparent with you and I hope I give off the same trust so that you can be transparent with me as well. I will always tell you my battles in the hopes that you can help me fight them. Right now I'm battling with something and this is my cry out for help. I will always keep you in mind when making any decisions which is why I wouldn't understand if you didn't do the same. You see, keeping secrets from me is something I wouldn't suggest because I think I'm a very reasonable and understanding individual, so anything you tell me I will be able to process and comprehend.
Future Husband, I hope we can come to the conclusion that transparency is key for this marriage. With that said, I want to be as clear and as gentle as possible when I say... don't you dare take the last slice of pizza without taking my feelings into consideration.