This is the thing... I'm a control freak. I like to think I have the best option and ideas in mind and I'm not afraid to express it. Although I mean well, I like to be heard and agreed with. That doesn't mean you won't be heard as well, I just have better ideas than you.
All I'm trying to do is save you the trouble of thinking of something and expressing it to me, I already know a better option. Sure, we can both put our thinking caps on but why waste time when we are going to chose my option in the end? Lets just both agree from now that I will always have a better route, activity, or movie in mind. I know what you should wear, or what looks best on you. I know what you will enjoy therefore, lets just do what I say.
Future Husband, please don't get upset. You will be heard and understood and your opinion matters to me. I know I need to be sensitive to the fact that you might want to take the lead when we are in front of our friends and I will allow that, as long as we have previously agreed on something I said. When it comes to food though, anything you suggest will always be the best option because I never know what I want to eat. Its just not that simple.